Cupid Called: Time To Love Yourself First
Valentine's Day is almost approaching, and when love is in the air, there is undoubtedly that one person who deserves the most heartfelt expression of affection—YOU. Yes, let's change the narrative this Valentine's Day. Keep the extravagance for yourself—because who says you can’t be your own Valentine? It’s time to celebrate self-love in a way that’s fun, indulgent, and unapologetically about you. Why not make yourself the star of the show?
Ever tried doing absolutely nothing—and felt like a boss while doing it? That’s therapeutic laziness for you. This isn’t your garden-variety sloth-mode; this is guilt-free, 5-star relaxation. Take a day off, put on your cosiest pajamas, and binge-watch a show that is as extravagant as you are without feeling guilty. Your peace of mind cannot wait; the dishes can.
Sometimes self love is about knowing when to let go. It can be a negative energy of a person or a thing that doesn’t fall into your energy bubble. Whether it’s an email that doesn’t need a reply or a party you do not want to attend, or a friend who drains your energy, or certain expectations you’ve set for yourself- release them gently. Think of it as decluttering your mental inbox. By freeing yourself from what no longer serves you, you make space for what truly matters. It’s not avoidance, it’s emotional feng shui.
Not all procrastination is created equal. Purposeful procrastination is the art of saying, "Not today, Satan," to your chores while you dive into something that makes your heart happy. That laundry pile? It’ll still be there tomorrow. But that book you’ve been dying to read or the nap you’ve been dreaming of? Those moments are fleeting. Embrace the pause; it’s called self-prioritisation.
In a world that glorifies the grind, intentional stillness is basically your rebellion anthem. Light a candle, close your eyes, and just exist. No multitasking. No endless scrolling. Just you, your thoughts, and maybe the faint sound of your neighbour’s dog barking. It’s not laziness—it’s a power move for your inner peace.
Let’s be real: who needs roses and heart-shaped balloons when you can cocoon yourself in comfort? Fluffy socks, soft blankets, and a playlist that’s 90% guilty pleasures—that’s the vibe. Comfort cocooning is your way of telling the world, "I’m busy," while you’re actually just basking in the glory of your own little paradise. Because honestly? You deserve it.
More Amore (love) for Yourself
At John Jacobs, we’re all about multifaceted love, and self-love is a cornerstone of it. Whether you’re mastering intentional stillness or living your best life through purposeful procrastination, make this Valentine’s Day about you. You’re the main character, the grand gesture, and the happily ever after.
So, go ahead. Light that candle, order your favourite meal, and pour yourself a drink. Love starts here—and it’s all yours. After all, the greatest love story of all time? It’s the one you write with yourself.
Written By:
Mahima Pahwa
Editorial Team of John Jacobs
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